Note: I do not plan to have this blog become nothing but recipes, book reviews, and food label takedowns. I am still (slowly but surely) working on the project I've been mentioning for a while, and I'm also still figuring out where to go next in my "real" posts -- the ones that dive deeper into physiology and biochemistry. I don't want to parrot what a hundred other people out there are already covering, so what's a gal to do? Man, this niche-finding is harder than it sounds! Anyway, I will be getting back to more educational posts soon, but in the meantime, rather than have total blog silence, I hope nobody minds that I keep posting things like this. So here goes...
I expected this book to be a diatribe against anyone who asks questions of restaurant wait staff, or who asks for substitutions of double green vegetables in lieu of potatoes or pasta. Was I going to sit through 200+ pages of this doctor railing against people who eat Paleo, Primal, gluten-free, low-carb, or who are simply concerned with the sources of their food? If so, it was gonna be a bumpy ride.
TL;DR – THIS IS A GOOD BOOK! Read it if you’re at all interested in learning more about orthorexia
or if you think someone you care about (possibly even you!) might be
struggling inordinately with food issues, to the point where their quality of
life is suffering. (BTW: After seeing it for so long on other
people’s sites, I finally learned what tl;dr means! I should probably go back and add it to Every. Single. Post.)
I am
happy to report that I was very pleasantly
surprised by this book. I braced myself for some major trash-talking of people
who take their health, diet, and physique seriously. But as the author explains
so well throughout, there’s a difference between someone taking their diet and
health seriously and them taking it so
seriously that they cease to have a life, or, at least, cease to have a life
that permits them to function in normal society, and that eventually interferes
with relationships, employment, socialization, and health. People are right to
be concerned about what they eat, and, truth be told, the average SAD-eaters out
there probably should be far more concerned
than they are. But when taken too far, hyper-vigilance about healthy eating starts to backfire, because health actually becomes worse—physical health, mental health, and sometimes
both.
I
suspect Dr. Bratman chose to write this book because he is intimately familiar
with the subject, both as a practicing physician and as a former orthorexic, himself. In fact, he’s the one who originally coined the term, after seeing the conglomeration of signs so often in his
patients, and recognizing that it might be easier to talk about if he could
give it a name. Bratman is completely forthcoming with details from his history
as (at various times) a raw foodist, vegan, fruitarian, and macrobiotic
follower.
It is
likely his own experience with orthorexia that enabled him to write this book
in such a gentle, understanding, and judgment-free tone. Where I expected him
to be condescending and insulting, he was understanding and empathetic. He
knows only too well how delicate food issues are—to everyone, really, but particularly to people whose lives are
ruled by food rules. So at times, he addresses things tenderly, and with kid
gloves, but never without an appropriate dose of scientific scrutiny,
nutritional reality checks, and, surprisingly, good humor. (That never hurts a book, especially one about a
serious topic.)
I was
surprised to note that this book came out in 2000—several years before the
recent avalanche of books about veganism, Paleo, low-carb, raw foods, etc. Then
again, there have always been whackjobs of some sort or other pedaling all
manner of out-there diets, cleanses, and life-saving protocols. (All yours for
just $19.99—BUT WAIT! Call now, and
we’ll send two! Just pay shipping and
handling!) Anyway, if you want to learn about some really wacky diet philosophies, all you have to do is dig a little
into the history of Sylvester Graham and John Harvey Kellogg. (Creators of graham crackers and modern high-fiber, whole
grain cereals, respectively—both designed to kill your libido, you lascivious,
libidinous, filthy, sex-always-on-the-brain American! Shame on you! You should live like a monk and spend at least half your day on the
toilet doing number 2. To quote Dave Barry [as I love to do], I
am not making this up!)
Seriously…didn’t anyone ever tell you you’d go blind…? Keep your hand away from
there!)
Aaaaanyway,
so why did I read this book? Well, it seems like there’s been a fair bit of talk about this in the blogosphere during the past few months, so I thought
maybe I ought to learn more about it. It’s also not out of the question that
I’ll come across a client or two that are either inching toward orthorexia, or
are already drowning in it. Couldn’t hurt to get more familiar with the
concept.
On the
blogs & forums I frequent, I’ve read
stories from people whose relationships have ended because of irreconcilable
differences about diet. And then there are parents who are worried about
visiting grandma for Christmas because she might slip their kids a slice of
cheese, or—*gasp*—some
wheat-containing cookies, and they’ll be peeling little Billy off the walls for
the next two hours. But we need some context with these things. When there’s a
genuine allergy or severe intolerance, of
course you should be careful. If someone really does have terrible reactions to certain foods, then you do need to
be vigilant, and maybe you need to have a serious talk with the extended
family about respecting those boundaries. And if you honestly believe your significant other is doing themselves
serious harm (and, by extension, disrespecting you in the process [albeit unintentionally], because you love them and want them to be healthy) by remaining (choose an adjective)
obese, sedentary, hyperinsulinemic, in chronic pain, etc., then maybe that’s not such a great
relationship to stay in anyway.
But
these things can be taken too far. If
Mikey always has to bring his own gluten-free cupcake frosted with coconut oil
and local, raw honey to classroom birthday parties even though he has no known issues with gluten, and you’re micromanaging every crumb of his
diet because you heard on a podcast that a rat study suggested he could become obese or get
Parkinson’s 89 years down the line, then there might be some rethinking to do.
(Note: I am not encouraging the
consumption of sugar and partially hydrogenated cottonseed oil [which most
frostings are made of]. I’m just making a point.)
So
there’s a spectrum here. A continuum that increases by degrees. It goes from a
healthy focus on…well, health, to an über-vigilance
that prevents you from participating in the world. (Or maybe you still manage
to participate, but you sure ain’t enjoying it.) And Bratman does a great job
of explaining the difference.
Bratman
covers several different food philosophies, poking holes in all of them. I like
that he does this, because he takes full responsibility for falling prey to the
weirdness of the methods he, himself, followed in the distant past. He talks
about veganism, macrobiotics, the blood type diet, raw foods, anti-candida
diets, the Zone diet (in which section he also dissects what he calls “the
caveman diet,” in referring to Ray Audette’s book, Neanderthin, which was one of the only "Paleo" books on the market at the time). He’s correct in pointing out that, regardless of how fervently
people might believe in these approaches to diet, they can’t all be right,
because they contradict each other so sharply. How can a raw food diet and “the
caveman diet” both be “the best” for
health? (I think I and anyone reading this blog know they’re not, or we like to think we know, but hey, time and science
could eventually prove us wrong. I don’t think they will, but you never know…)
Bratman’s
humor really comes through in the sections where he tackles each of these diets
individually. He’s respectful of the reasons why people find refuge in them, but
he also opens dialogues by pointing out how ridiculous it all is. How can they
all be magical healing diets when one says no animal foods, and another says
liberal amounts of animal foods? One says no cooked foods; another says only cooked foods. It’s enough to make
you give up and head to Wal-Mart for blueberry muffins at 4 for $1.00.
My
only beef with Bratman (no pun intended, honest!) is that he emphasizes a
vegetarian diet—one that includes lots of tofu—as the best for health. In his
defense, though, he stresses that this should be a lacto-ovo vegetarian diet,
because he is well aware of the potential nutrient deficiencies induced by
long-term veganism. (And this being said, he also emphasizes that diet truly
needs to be individualized. The magic bullet for one person could be the kiss
of death for the next. And even for the
same person, what worked well when they were 25 might not work at all when
they’re 65. His perspective is
refreshingly balanced, which was probably the most pleasant surprise of all while reading this book.)
Here’s
a direct quote:
“No
known peoples have ever been vegan. That there’s basically no way to get enough
of this essential vitamin [B12] without eating at least a bit of
animal products is an indication that it isn’t really a healthy approach to
diet.”
Fact: Man (and woman) cannot live by salad alone.
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And even better: In order to convince a vegan patient to add back in some animal foods, he explained to her that “…no primal peoples known on the face of the earth had ever been vegan, and that the whole idea was really an invention of people who lived in Western countries and had too much time on their hands.”
HA! That
reminded me of Chris Rock’s line about red meat: “What do you mean, ‘Red meat
will kill you?’ Don’t eat no red meat? No, don’t eat no green meat. What'chu talkin' about?! If you’re one of the chosen few people on this Earth that's lucky enough to get your hands on a steak,
bite the sh*t out of it!”
And as
long as we’re quoting Chris Rock’s stellar insights on food (NSFW), let’s do one
more: “We got so much food in America, we’re allergic to food. Allergic to
food! Hungry people ain’t allergic to sh*t. You think anyone in Rwanda’s got a
[f-ing] lactose intolerance?!”
And I
have to say, I was quite pleasantly surprised at his take on the Zone and
Paleo. (I’m tired of saying “caveman diet.” We know what he means.) He wasn’t
too keen on the amount of fat or animal protein, but he was in agreement on the
issues of blood sugar & insulin regulation, and said
it was unlikely there would be any nutritional shortcomings on these plans.
Overall, his treatment of these approaches is pretty nice, especially considering he’s a
former raw vegan, which goes to show how far a medical/science education has
broadened his perspective.
The
author saves his harshest critique for the blood type diet. (His opinion in a
nutshell: it is total bullcrap.) He also shares tales of a couple of patients
who were “living on tablets”—people who ate some amount of actual food, but who
were obsessed with supplements. People whose lives revolved around their supplementation
schedule. These were patients who’d show up at his office with a shopping bag
full of pill bottles, and who actually wanted him to recommend more, not fewer. Oddly enough, I can
relate. I’ve certainly never lost any quality of life to my supplement regimen,
but on and off during the last 5 years or so, I’ve been pretty desperate to
help myself. Maybe you can relate to some of this: After reading Julia Ross's classic, The Mood Cure, you can be sure I ran out
and bought 5-HTP, tyrosine, DLPA, a stress formula that contained all kinds of
herbal adaptogens…I could go on. It’s easy to fall into this as a nutritionist.
When you start studying different nutrients and what they do, you tend to
think you need more of whatever it is you’re currently fixated on, be it
chromium, lipoic acid, tryptophan, B6… I have a drawer loaded with supplements, most of which I don't take and were a complete waste of money. (But sometimes you’ve got to experiment until
you find the things that do work.) When
you’re in a physical or psychological place you want to get out of, it’s easy
to latch on to anything and everything you think might help. I think most
experienced naturopaths out there have probably learned to just smile and roll
their eyes when new patients show up with bags of pills in their hands and looks of
desperation on their faces.
Sometimes, you can find relief in a bunch of pills.
Not usually complete or permanent relief, though.
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But
just like with food, people can have orthorexia with pills, too. They’re
looking for the fountain of youth, or the miracle cure for wrinkles, or cellulite,
or weak nails, dry skin, low moods, or a perpetually flaccid penis. And
they can’t leave the house because they’ve mastered their 82-pill-a-day regimen
down to the nanosecond, and there are too many unpredictable variables in the
outside world that might make them take their chelated manganese three quarters
of a minute late.
But
what makes someone orthorexic? What
leads someone to believe “THE ANSWER” lies on a plate of carrots and brown rice
arranged just so, or in a glass of
wheatgrass juice, a slab of tofu, or, dare I say it, a grassfed ribeye?
Bratman’s got some great theories about this, and they’re things you might have
heard the likes of Robb Wolf, Mark Sisson, and Chris Kresser mention on their
podcasts and in their blogs.
Robb
Wolf said it best a while back on one of his podcasts. An aerobics instructor
had written in and she was explaining her exercise schedule—including many,
many hours of cardio machines, lifting, and running in addition to the multiple classes she taught every day. (And she was complaining of fatigue and, not so ironically [if you know anything about how the body works], weight gain.) Robb
politely suggested that she ask herself what she was running from. Someone who buries themselves that
deeply into running (or biking, swimming, lifting, what-have-you) is probably trying to escape from something. They’re devoting inordinate amounts of time to exercise in order to avoid having
to deal with something else in their
life.
And here is where I think Bratman really hits the jackpot. What are the
psychological factors that drive someone to become orthorexic? ‘Cuz let’s face
it: there’s a big difference between being careful about where your food comes
from and how you prepare it, and letting these issues control your life. And
many orthorexics start out innocently enough. They start from a place of
genuinely wanting to improve their health, physique, allergies, energy levels,
or whatever, but somehow, they become convinced they’ve found some kind of holy
grail that leads them not just to dietary
perfection, but to perfection (or, at least, the promise of perfection) in the rest of their life as well.
He
delves into a few of the potential thought patterns that move people from one
end of the balanced-sanity spectrum to the other. All of them are logical and
insightful, but I’ll focus on only a couple here, since this post is way too
long already. (It seems this is my trademark. If I can’t be intelligent, I’ll
be verbose.)
He talks
about people using diet to feel superior. Ex: they eat “cleaner” than anyone
they know. They’re not eating pizza and beer like their overweight
mother/husband/friend/coworker. Bratman doesn’t specifically make the following
connection, but I think this could be
especially true for people with deep insecurities in other areas of their life: their career, their appearance, their
finances, their marriage, etc. Dietary perfection gives them something to feel
proud of, when they feel like there’s nothing else going right in their life.
It’s one thing—maybe the only thing—they
can hold over people’s heads and feel like they’ve accomplished something.
Their neighbor might have their dream job, their dream car, and their dream
wife, but dammit, they haven’t eaten
a single grain of white sugar in 627 days, whereas neighbor guy eats Nutter Butters on his porch every night, so there! Abstainer clearly has a happier life! (And is a “better”/more morally righteous
person, to boot!)
Here
are some other lines that hammer home the author’s thoughts on different
reasons that push people toward orthorexia. Some people are trying to avoid
food allergens and end up being able to eat practically nothing; others fall under the incorrect assumption that changing
their diet is enough to change the rest of their life—and that if they could
just “be perfect” with what they eat, then the rest of their problems will
magically disappear. And, of course, there are people who focus solely on diet because by becoming
completely, 100% absorbed in food, they can conveniently ignore the things in
their life that really need
attention, but which are much more uncomfortable to acknowledge and deal with
than what they put on their plate.
Regarding
people who take food allergies too far:
“Do
you really need to have a body that is absolutely, perfectly healthy and a mind
that is never troubled or upset? … Do you really get as sick from minor
allergens as you allow yourself to believe? How much of it do you exaggerate,
even to yourself? Does it warm your heart to shake your head sadly and say,
‘No, I can’t eat that. It makes the skin on my third toe turn red.’ Could some
of it be psychosomatic, a mental effect caused by your strong opinions against
certain foods?”
(And
again, I am not suggesting severe food allergies don’t exist, and neither is
the author. Bratman acknowledges over and over again the healing he has seen in
people who ditch things like gluten, dairy, and/or soy. He’s not talking about
that. He’s talking about people who are seriously off the deep end with this
stuff.)
“Psychologically,
food allergies involve a kind of intolerance to all discomfort, all
imperfection in the body…The net effect is a personality that
holds little tolerance for any mood, discomfort, or disturbance. In a sense we
become picky eaters at every level, not only of food but of all sensations.”
Brilliant!
Another
reason the author has identified that pushes people toward orthorexia is what
he calls “the desire for complete control.” He explains it as: “Using the tiny
world of food to
convince yourself that your whole life is under your control.” Using macrobiotics as an example, he says, “You can focus all your angst on the important question of how best to slice the carrots and thereby avoid unpleasant subjects such as ‘What am I doing with my life anyway?’”
convince yourself that your whole life is under your control.” Using macrobiotics as an example, he says, “You can focus all your angst on the important question of how best to slice the carrots and thereby avoid unpleasant subjects such as ‘What am I doing with my life anyway?’”
If food is doing this to you, you do not need
another Whole30®, or another strict 30-day Paleo challenge. More likely, you need a
break from being ruled by food rules. And possibly also professional help.
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“Orthorexia is a simple solution,” the author says. “It frees us from thinking about the full range of issues that might matter in our lives and turns our attention toward one direction only: what goes into the mouth. It’s wonderful! The only problem is that it’s a lie.”
This reminds
me of what I talked about in my post about vitamin J. Some
health and quality of life issues have nothing to do with diet. No amount of tyrosine, bone broth, or liver, can change the fact that you feel trapped in a
loveless marriage; stuck in an unfulfilling job; or suffocated under a mountain
of debt. But controlling your diet—relentlessly, perfectly controlling your diet and nailing your supplement schedule
down to the second—might give you some illusion
of control. The feeling that you are steering your life, when the truth is,
your life is collapsing all around you and you’re hanging on to micromanaging
your food because it’s the only thing you feel like you can hang on to.
And
making sure that you have exactly “x” grams of protein, fat, and carbs per day,
every day, might get old after a
while, but it’s a heckuva lot more comfortable than taking serious stock of
your life and being scared, disgusted, or ashamed of what you see when you do.
If only you could lose those last 4 pounds, then everything would be perfect.
(No, it won’t. Believe me.) If only you could shave 32 seconds off your 10K time, then
everything will fall into place. If only you could deadlift 40 more pounds. If
only your spinach were biodynamic…
If
only it were that simple, cupcake. If only it were that simple.
Remember:
Amy Berger, M.S., NTP, is not a physician and Tuit Nutrition, LLC, is not a
medical practice. The information contained on this site is not intended to
diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical condition.
I am a fairly new reader and wanted to thank you. I am enjoying your blog and love the varied subjects you cover. This one, unfortunately, applies to me to a degree. I am working on changing that.....relaxing and letting myself enjoy all the foods that life has to offer!
ReplyDeleteGlad you like what you've found here so far. And good for you for recognizing that you might be taking things too far. There's a fine line between being careful about what we eat and honoring our bodies and our health, but honestly? Sometimes your soul just wants a donut! ;-)
DeleteVerbose and intelligent (emphasis on the latter). Works for me, Amy.
ReplyDeleteGreat blog post, Amy. Wish I had read this when you wrote it....4 years ago!
ReplyDeleteI have to wonder at times about your level of anger. I am not a nutritionist so can't really know what it must be like to encounter food obsessing people every day but I probably would not take it this personal.
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