I am paraphrasing, but here
are a few examples of what I routinely read in various FB groups and blog
comments:
- “I’ve been following a strict ketogenic diet for two months and have only lost 10 pounds. What am I doing wrong?”
- “I’ve been doing strict keto for three months. I’m off my blood pressure medication and have reduced my insulin dose by half. I feel fantastic and have tons of energy, but I haven’t lost any weight. Why isn’t this working for me?”
- “I’m doing a keto diet and I lost four pounds the first week, three the second week, then only two the third week, and now I’m up a pound. What did I do wrong?”
Let’s address point number 3
first, since it’s the easiest to knock out of the way. As I wrote about back in this post, weight loss is almost
never linear. It just isn’t. To
expect it to be is an exercise in frustration and disappointment. If you want to be frustrated and disappointed,
then by all means, go ahead and expect that your weight loss will be a straight
decline, with absolutely no stalls, plateaus, gains, bumps, or hiccups along
the way.
When you want your weight
loss to look like this…
…but it actually looks like this…
…well, there’s nothing wrong, mysterious, or surprising
about it. Not in the slightest. This is how it happens. If your weight loss is linear, especially over a long period
of time, with no plateaus and no ups and downs, just downs, downs, downs,
please see a doctor ASAP, because you might have some kind of terrible
wasting disease and you should get that checked out STAT. Otherwise, ups and downs are normal. They’re angering, yes. They’re frustrating, yes, and
disappointing, yes. But They. Are. Normal. Capice?
I could waste lots of time
blathering on about why they’re
normal, but my posts are already always too long, so if you want to pick my
brain about that, feel free to book an appointment. ;-)
Let’s look at that second weight
loss graph.
As I explained a while back, there are all kinds of hiccups along the way. We’ve got some
stalls & plateaus wherein weight stays the same for a while, and we’ve even
got some weight gain here and there. But
when you look at the entire graph, the progression, over time, is downward.
But what happens when people trying
to lose weight step on the scale every day? The small day-to-day fluctuations drive
them absolutely crazy. Being “stalled” for a week or two—or a month or two—or
gaining a pound or two or four, might even make them quit whatever program they’re
following, when they’re actually doing just
fine. According to the good doctors Volek and Phinney, day-to-day fluctuations of as much as four pounds are totally normal. It is not reflective of fat loss or gain. (What could it be, then? Water, glycogen, karma,
Saturn rising in Aquarius…) And I can’t find the reference at the moment, but I’m
pretty sure I’ve heard Dr. Phinney say he doesn’t consider it a “stall” unless there’s
been no change in weight or size
(inches/cm) for more than eight weeks. Eight
weeks! And most people posting on keto and low carb forums with woeful tales
of stalled weight loss are frantic because it’s been one or two weeks. *Facepalm.*
Here’s another fun way to look at how weight loss works in the real world:
On to points 1 and 2:
Here is my combined response
to people who post similar tearful tales:
“You’ve lost 10 pounds in 2
months? You should be proud of yourself and celebrating, and instead you’re
beating yourself up and feeling like a failure. Please stop! Please think about
it this way: if you had gained 10 pounds in 2 months, that would
seem like a very, VERY BIG DEAL,
right? So why is it not an equally big deal that you've lost
that much? You said it yourself: you’ve already experienced a huge
improvement medically and you feel fantastic. That says it all. Please, give
yourself credit!”
Let’s focus on the sentence
in bold. I emphasized it because I wish I could say this to everyone out there
who’s fretting and feeling disappointed at what they perceive as a slow weight
loss. Any loss -- any loss at all -- is proof that at least something you’re doing is effective. What if you’ve “only” lost eight pounds, instead of ten? Or you’ve lost six or just four pounds? You’ll beat yourself up for your perceived failure, when if you had gained four, six, or eight pounds in the same timeframe, you would ... well, you would beat yourself up for your perceived failure. (Why? Because eight, six, or even four pounds ARE a big deal! Got it? Good!)
About the second part—experiencing
wonderful improvements in medical conditions, even when weight loss is slow or
perhaps not even occurring at all: fat loss is a nice goal, but if you are
living with metabolic syndrome, T2 diabetes, heart disease, PCOS, kidney
dysfunction, hypertension, or any other condition currently believed to be intimately linked to insulin resistance, then your time and
dietary efforts are better spent focusing on improving your health, rather than
your weight. Low carbohydrate and ketogenic diets have many, many benefits beyond weight loss. In
fact, some of the therapeutic effects are observed in people who don’t lose weight. So rest assured
that in following a nutrient-dense low carb diet, your health is likely
improving even when the dastardly scale would have you feel like a failure.
And remember—always, always
remember—being “thin” is not indicative of being healthy. Body mass index and other metrics that take only body weight into account say absolutely nothing about someone’s
metabolic health. I use the acronym “TOFI” pretty casually (thin outside, fat inside), but it’s actually a pretty big deal. To the extent that excess adiposity is reflective
of insulin resistance and harmful metabolic dysregulation, then yes, losing
some of that excess fat is probably a sign that you’re correcting some of that
dysregulation. But in that case, the goal—the prize to keep your eyes on—is better
health, not smaller pants.
Easier said than done, I
know. (Believe me, I know. I haven't learned all this by serendipity, y'know.) But just something to keep in
mind, because it makes me sad when I see people feeling like low carb isn ’t working for them when they’re actually doing beautifully.
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The psychological connect with weight loss and health is staggeringly strong. I have to reassure many people that compounding positive health changes far outweigh the immediate "negative" they're seeing. I'm practically self-diagnosed with body dysmorphia disorder and I have to therapize myself almost on a daily basis that fat loss isn't always the answer to my life's problems. I survived DKA + acute pancreatitis, successfully reversed T2D, hypertension, gout, became active and insulin sensitive, lost 130lbs and maintained that loss for 6+ years, and I *still* want more. And I know all this.
ReplyDeleteHearing the same kind of situation from others doesn't make me step outside myself to reassure them either - quite the opposite actually, since it seems to elicit an extrapolated response borne from my own insecurity - but throttling people isn't very appealing or professional lol. It's frustratingly relatable and understandable from my personal perspective.
When is it okay to say, "I got my own problems, buddy?"
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No one ever said this stuff was easy. ;-) In fact, the physical process of fat loss and improving health in other ways is probably *easier* than the psychological aspects. I, too, have learned the hard way that fitting into smaller clothing was not the magical path to happiness in the rest of my life. If only it was!
Delete@Anubis, your comment is truly awesome. You have Hero status in my book.
DeleteAnd Amy, THANK YOU for posting this. You're amazing and I'm looking forward to reading your new book on Alzheimer's!
Another thing I think should be emphasized (which I'm sure you've done in other posts) is that weight can be misleading, what really counts is how you look in the mirror and how that weight is distributed. What we're trying to lose here is fat, not just weight. So just because your weight isn't changing much, or at all, doesn't mean you're not getting leaner.
ReplyDeleteSo look in the mirror (and maybe take pictures along the way, as difficult as that may be for many people) and see what's happening to your waist, etc. That will tell the real tale, as well as how you feel, what your fitness is, etc. Take measurements of your waist, hips, arms/legs if that's where your weight problem lies.
Many people say to never weight yourself and only use the mirror and measuring tape. But of course the scale is easier and it's hard to ignore.
YES. Yes to all of this. :)
DeleteI'm a clinical psychologist on my own weight loss journey (-130 lbs over 5 years). I have moved to a ketogenic eating program with good success over the last 6 months. I have tried to read broadly to get a feel for both the scientific research and the applied and popular information available. I have been bothered by the unrealistic and unsustainable approaches that you point out. I appreciate your good advice in this article. Any change can be challenging, but change that happens at the level of identity and self-concept is very complicated and multi-faceted. Your thoughts are helpful and practical. I have bookmarked your site. Thanks. Pete Wilson, Psy.D drpfwilson@twitter.com
ReplyDeleteThanks, Pete! I do try to be a voice of reason and sanity in all this. Lots of people are going off the deep end, I think.
DeleteOne of the frustrations (for me anyway), is that things like test results improving are silent except for every six months or so when I get blood drawn. So my three months and counting stall had me wondering if anything positive was happening. I just got my labs drawn and trigs were way down and HDL was up significantly. So that provided a burst of encouragement but the impact of that will wane over time.
ReplyDeleteThis is true -- when we gauge things by bloodwork, it's not the same kind of instant gratification that comes from the loss of a few pounds. I guess maybe just, day to day, feeling good, having steady energy, no major dips in cognition or focus...relief of chronic pain (if that was an issue) -- there are other things to look for to have proof this is effective, depending on the particular issues someone is/was dealing with. (Acne, PMS, headaches, etc.)
DeleteFantastic article, Amy. Sharing on my page.
ReplyDeletecan you explain how good this diet is for a diabetic
ReplyDeleteIn the briefest way I can, I believe a low carbohydrate diet is probably the #1 most effective intervention for type 2 *and* type 1 diabetes. For more in-depth information, there are approximately a zillion good books on the subject. Or start here: https://www.dietdoctor.com/diabetes
DeleteHi Amy,
ReplyDeleteYou say it's actually quite possible to be thin on the outside and fat on the inside, which I totally agree with. The problem is, how do you know you're fat inside? I mean, being fat outside is as simple as looking in the mirror. Fat inside... do you need X-Rays?
Thanks and keep up the good work!
X-rays? LOL, no. Go by bloodwork. "Fat inside" means that someone has the metabolic profile we would "expect" in someone who is overweight or obese (based on the [false] notion that body size alone is an indicator of one's health). You would want to look at triglycerides, HDL, fasting glucose, fasting insulin, liver enzymes, blood pressure, markers of inflammation, etc.
DeleteSymptoms too! As one of those annoying people who never gain weight (except after obeying a dietician!) I'm still much the same weight I've mostly been, but most of my symptoms have improved and many are completely eliminated. Bloods correlate closely to the symptoms, or lack thereof.
DeleteAt the moment weight loss means my hyperthyroid is undermedicated. Just one example of other players that may be on the field.
chris c
Thanks Amy for the reply to my initial question.
DeleteYou're talking about blood test, which seems good... but aren't all those markers related to some other issues? You could have elevated liver enzymes because of hepatitis or high blood pressure because of sleep apnea.
I could give my own example when I was having some health issues (won't talk a lot about them publicly) : low tryg, nice HDL, elevated liver enzymes (almost all of them), low blood pressure, some inflammation, low red-blood cells count, quite low white-blood cells count... so things not necessarily pointing in the same direction.
Thanks again!
Yes, you're right (and very astute) -- various blood markers can be high or low for a number of reasons. This is why I advise against looking at any one number in isolation. Blood tests should be considered within the framework of "the whole person" -- the total picture of the biomarkers, plus the signs and symptoms a person exhibits, plus knowledge of someone's diet and lifestyle. In my opinion, this is what's missing from modern allopathic medicine -- way too much focus on one number to the exclusion of all else. High blood glucose? We give you insulin. High blood pressure? We give you a beta blocker. High cholesterol? Shove a statin at you. It's a rare doctor these days who looks at root causes and treats *people,* rather than treating numbers on a lab printout.
DeleteThanks for the reply again! Greatly appreciated.
DeleteThank you so much!! This just seemed to flip a switch in my thinking. I am going to do this...no matter the ups and downs. It is about consistency for me. And I love the "you're not in a plateau unless it has lasted 8 weeks"
ReplyDelete:) Thanks for reading! I need to see if I can dig up the reference for the eight weeks thing, because I quote it often and would like to be able to back it up with the source when I find it again.
DeleteSuch a great post to read. I've been explaining to my wife and even a few people how weight loss especially fat loss actually works. I'll have to send them this fantastic post which will hopefully open their eyes a bit more. Been keto for about 4 weeks now and I must say don't really care about the weight loss if it comes great. I focus on the amazing amount of energy I have and how great I feel.
ReplyDeleteAwesome! Thanks for sharing it. :)
DeleteI watched, listened to the Podcast, Jan 2017, Amy Guest on, Primal Edge Health, Busting Myths!
ReplyDeleteI began counting 72 hours ago, being under 25g carbs. I kept feeling poked as in maybe this isn't a best choice for me. In my adult years, my lowest weight 79lbs, my highest 215 pregnant, 90lb anorexic when I became pregnant, I packed on two humans, one being my baby/born healthy due to my eating only good food, my sugar whacked out, not ever discussed by my gyno.
I was 95lbs in 10 months after giving birth. I am 50 now, I lost and kept off my weight, had my ups and downs, I was a stable 128lbs, extremely happy. Then came Estrogen Dominance, slowly sneaking up on me, stealing my body ! I gained in the last year 18lbs. I have lost near ten since Nov 2016. I watching Skater girl person on YT, she bothers me, I wasn't sold, she though got me to read more.
AMY you make so much sense. I am going to go lower in my carbs, I am by digestive issues meat free. I am going to work on it. Eggs, my gut says NO. I learned more from you today, than I have learned from my doctors. 13 colon rectal surgeries in 10 yrs, I am 20 yrs surgery free. Stress and Diet pegged. No one told me about Gut flora /bacteria imbalance, this how I was able to shag 10 pounds (in 90 days) and keep off unwanted pounds, probiotics (2014) they saved my life.
There is so much people do not consider upon altering their diet, extreme overnight.
You saved me from going down a path that more than likely would have thrown me
into obsessive compulsive #uckery that I gave up .. 20 yrs ago.
You are Gold Amy Berger, Thank you for all your research and documentation
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Vita, if you have digestive issues, I am very surprised that you are meat-free. Shocked, actually. Most people with digestive difficulty seem to thrive on meat, while plant foods (especially those that are high in fiber) tear them apart. fascinating story here: https://zerocarbzen.com/about-me/
DeleteBut do whatever works for you.
Thanks for the kind words about the podcast. :)
Amy, you are an awesome being. I am chain linking here, from you, to others who specialize in DIET. I found last night, Dr. Jason Fung. You and He should get together,may it be you already have. Two great brains with seeing the tree in the forest. You and he both are trail blazers in your own rites of knowledge. https://intensivedietarymanagement.com/
DeleteHe is on YT, many podcasts uploaded in 2017. Keto and Insulin - gah what a concept, Hormones and obesity, weight lost, piled back on. His YT channel, https://www.youtube.com/user/drjasonfung - I will read your link, If you haven't check him out, please do, I think you combined can re-invent the wheel.
Thank you for all you do, Vita.
Thanks, Vita! :) Yes, I know Dr. Fung, He does great work! He and I have even collaborated on a journal article: http://www.insulinresistance.org/index.php/jir/article/view/18/21
DeleteAmy Thank You. I found Dr. Fung by mishap, last night. I began my day listening to podcasts, his teaching sessions, I so intrigued. I am a sponge. I sent you an email this evening. I now have stared at the pdf you sent, I began reading it, I AM blown away.
DeleteMY gut, my surgeries, no diagnosis, the conclusion of doctors was stress, diet.
What was the problem, chronic fistulas. My first surgery, they digging for gold, 8 hours under the knife.
How I wound up in surgery. A Fissure, horrible, I prob had it, then birth of my daughter it tore, this was detected by my gyno, 10 months post birth, I was under the knife next day, 7am, I have never met the man who carved my body up like a dead carcass. My gyno setup the surgery. The surgeon did not see me post op. He sent his partner. 8 days instay, one post op visit, I never saw the surgeon.
The fissure which became infected, huge tear, 3 inches wide, two deep. My body was a full fledged infection. No fever. Me to feel like crap, became my normal. The day I had the one pain, was the day I called my doc, and I didn't know where the pain came from.
My entire muscle wall, was perforated. 5 Fistulas, found were Polyps which were tested, No cancer thank god. Hemorrhoids internal, external, a cyst in my buttock, carved out, left open. How fun. He removed nearly my entire sphincter muscle, he replaced it with wire like a champagne cork/bottle. I was 26, gutted, I lost 12lbs in 8 days, post op, shaking so from the pain, no meds for me, they said my blood pressure was too low. That without the doctor to order them, I was to ride it out. They then gave me pain meds, many hours later, the pain meds, 600mg darvocets never caught up, .. I wanted someone to kill me, I begged for my death, It was a bad scene.
New Doc, long story, more fistulas, 12 ops he trying to fix with the first animal did, and then he trying to keep me with all my parts. He did succeed, I have all my parts.
My last surgery, I was 37, he said I may come out with a full colostomy, tagged and bagged for life. He saved my life, my 2nd Doc. I not once ever was asked of my diet, what I eat, if I had aversions, allergies not ever tested, not ever. Hormones, I know have had a huge influence on my body, as I could not take BC pills. My gyno prescribed, how many estrogen cocktails, she finally said, you have very high Estrogen, your body is rejecting the pill. blah blah blah,.. I am so thankful for your research and your sharing the collaborated article, I downloaded it. I have begun reading it. I will read read it tomorrow, my brain is overflowing.
Man - had the title not been Busting the Myths, on the Primal upload,
I may not have watched it. I am so sick of either being deceived, or being blamed because, " you didn't ask that" when you're half alive, do I apologize after my funeral?, you're the doc etc, smh.
I've always said I am not a dentist, I am independant, for reasons only I understand.
When you have time, my email sent. I will followup with Her, then followup with you.
No Freebies,
Freedom isn't Free. Amy You Rawk, V
Oh so COOL - I am going to read it right now !
ReplyDeleteThanks
ReplyDeleteThe reference I am aware of for "eight weeks until you can call it a plateau" I have heard on Dr. Eric Westman's interview on DietDoctor, the one that is either specifically about "stalling" or advanced advice on following LCHF. You may need to be a member to see this video, but you can join DietDoctor for free for a month. Since Drs. Westman and Volek are colleagues, likely they would both have said it at some point. Thanks, Adrian
ReplyDeleteAh, thank you! Yes, I probably saw it in the book that Phinney, Volek, and Westman co-authored together -- The New Atkins for a New You. It was likely in there.
DeleteWell, in the event that you are attempting to offer somebody something they don't need or need, you are an extortionist not an expert sales representative. Pruvit Canada
ReplyDeleteThis is very interesting content! I have thoroughly enjoyed reading your points and have come to the conclusion that you are right about many of them. You are great. fit livings
ReplyDeleteNice
ReplyDeleteNewbie, if a person has genetically high blood pressure & on the high end of cholesterol #s will the keto diet help?Which I'm sure it will, but will it be had to loose the weight too...say 15-20#s from 173# on a 46yr old female?
ReplyDeleteAny tips, suggestions, info is greatly appreciated!
Currently doing HCG,it works, but is very difficult being a very social person and eating out quite a bit!
Thank you in advance for any info!
Thank You!
Belinda
Hey Belinda,
DeletePlease email me privately. Too much for me to discuss here in the comments, but I'd be happy to tell you a bit about blood pressure & cholesterol with regard to ketogenic diets.
You can contact me through the "Contact me" form toward the right on my site. It's small, but you'll see it. It's below the list of links to people & sites I like.
thank you Amy xox
ReplyDeleteI have to say im proud of my self, in beggining of july 4 mounts ago, Ive cut patato, bread, pasta, refined sugar, prepared meals, for my health because all my familly died from cancer and I said NOT me, read alot on keto for my dogs at first and then started to see it good for me also, so in august started ”keto” lost 18 pounds, my husband 15, but we do not calculate anything, but we eat well, I even started to cook with that way of life, and love it, eating healty is our goal, If one day I feel like eating an apple well I do, love my fruits and veggies and my FAT lol but dont go crazy, im pretty sure im ''fat addaptive'', Ive been intermittent fasting for 1 year also, been drinking my lemon ACV water every day, my bone broth to breack my fast, Im 51 and really love the way I feel, no more aches and pains, I even started to be regular in my period, that im not so happy about lol
thank you cant wait to read more oh also I put himalayen salt in my water, my downside I have leg cramps in the morning.
Regardless, all experts do agree that the best way to deal with keep up weight loss is to take after a sound lifestyle.diets that work fast
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